Sunday, April 26, 2020

Fountain Pen

We used only a pencil in the first few years of school.  I think it was 3rd grade that we started using a pen. A fountain pen.
 It was a love hate relationship.  I had my fountain pen for a long time till I left  it on a bus on my way home from school. 

My pen looked like this only a maroon color.
Many things could go wrong with your pen. The split could widen and you had a blotch on your paper. A pen could leak from just about anywhere and destroy books and anything else in a book bag.
But what was worse...was when your ink bottle leaked.
I am pretty sure I have used this exact ink. I kept my bottle inside it's box as more protection if any spilled out.  Filling up your pen was a little dangerous. You could splatter and get the ink on the back of the uniform of the person in front of you. Or on yourself and then have to listen to your mother as she tries to scrub it out of whatever you got it on.

It was not unusual to hand in a paper with some blotches of ink on it.  And just about always some ink on your hands.

If you forgot to tell your mother you are low on ink, you had to beg someone in class to let you use theirs. 
In old cartoons and movies you see a boy, sitting behind a girl,  dipping the girls hair braid into an ink bottle. That never happened in my school. A nun would have slapped him silly if he did that.

Eventually, Ball point pens became more common and we were allowed to use them in school. We were so happy, but that did not last long.

Early ballpoint pens were horrible! 
They did not write with a smooth line of ink, sometimes. 
It might skip, it might not write at all. It might only use up half the ink in them and stop. You always had to have a few pens on you.
Here is the pen.
Some times the pen would only write on parts of the paper which made you wonder why the heck it would not write on certain areas.

They look like some of today's pens, but they are NOT.  They improved with time, thankgoodness.











Wednesday, April 8, 2020

TV Part Two

When I was 8,  This is the age of my family and what they liked to watch. Of course they liked a wide variety of shows, this is just movies.  We all seem to agree on what TV shows to watch.



Not my family but you get the idea how we all watched TV together. If we were all home, there was not enough room and some of us had to sit on the floor. 

Watching the Ed Sullivan show was fun and most of us watched it on Sunday Night because he had a wide variety of acts that appealed to all of us. 


MOVIES
Mother- Westerns, War Movies, Drama's

Father- War Movies, Westerns, Drama's

Peggy 17,  Romance, Drama's 

Barbara 15, Romance, musicals

Me 8, Science Fiction, Thriller, Mystery, sometimes Drama

Charlie 7, War movies, westerns

Thomas, to young to count.

Everyone liked a good mystery movie including me, so that was not much of a problem either UNLESS it was opposite  a War or Western Movie. 
I liked all the Science Fiction, Thriller movies besides Mystery movies.  

If I wanted to watch something that was opposite a War movie and my father was home, I was not going to watch my movie. No matter how much I begged.   Now if I wanted to watch something opposite a Western movie, I had a 50-50 chance of my mother letting me watch my movie.

My father worked nights and slept during the day. So it was only a problem with him on his days off. 

We liked comedies, Abbott and Costello, Martin and Lewis, I liked some drama's but I was not a fan till I was much older and watched some of the old movies,  watch any Gregory Peck movie, nothing gets better than him. 

The Best times were movies that only showed once a year. (The VCR ruined this).  When the Wizard of Oz, or The Miracle on 42nd street  or A Christmas Carol or Charlie Browns Christmas was going to be on TV, you prepared for it.  
You were excited for weeks leading up to the movie.
  You made sure you would be home to watch it, popcorn was made (jiffy popcorn made on the stove) and everyone watched it together. 
Those are very warm memories. sigh

We don't have one picture of us all in the livingroom, watching TV. It's a good thing I have it all in my mind...











Tuesday, March 24, 2020

TV-Part One

I asked my mother once, did you have TV when you were little and she said no.  We had radio. Radio? How did you live without TV!? 

So, the year I was born (or shortly before) we got our first TV in the Bronx. 
You can see our first TV here, in 1951.  The stand it's on came with us to Queens when we moved. It was too big for this TV and I wonder if a radio used to sit on top of it. 

Here is a TV I remember the most when we moved to College Point, with my brother Charlie.  Notice it is the same stand in the above picture. Now that stand looks too small for this TV.
The picture was not much better in person. The rabbit (antenna) ears sat on top.  The remote control was not invented yet  

So if you were walking within eye sight of my father he might  tell you to move the antenna, to get a clearer picture or change the channel. 

 Many times we would have to  stand there moving the antenna, complaining that we have to go out! 
Aluminum foil would be put on the tips of the antenna to try to get a clearer picture.

A bad picture had ghosts.  I had to look it up to try to explain it. lol

In television, a ghost is a replica of the transmitted image, offset in position, that is super-imposed on top of the main image. It is often caused when a TV signal travels by two different paths to a receiving antenna, with a slight difference in timing.

There were other knobs to turn to try to tune for a  better picture , but it was hard work.

TV programs did not stay on all night. I don't remember when it went off. Maybe around 1am  with the Flag blowing in the wind.   Maybe it came on at 5am. 


It was many years later that color TVs came out, with remotes!  I was married a few years  before we could buy one. 

Next I'll talk about having ONE tv with 4 kids and 2 adults. 


Saturday, March 7, 2020

Banging on the pipes

In 1971 Tony Orlando and Dawn recorded a song called, Knock three times. 
In Apartment buildings this was one way for kids to communicate. The things we had to do before THE Internet. lol




My friend Martin lived a floor below and sometimes we would tap out messages. We'd use a utensil, I used a spoon.  Probably what we never thought about was...the whole building could hear us tapping out. 

The kitchen had the best pipes and that's where I remember sending messages from.  

If I got too crazy with the tapping, I'd get yelled at by my mother.

Sigh, that was a cute short and sweet memory. 

Sunday, February 23, 2020

The Ice Cream Man -1950s

Like all kids, we looked forward to the ice cream man in the 1950s in the Bronx. If we were out playing when he came we would scream up at the window for ma to throw down money. That is, if we were allowed to have ice cream. 

Money would be thrown down in a hanky that was tied or pinned.  If she didn't hear us screaming we would have to run up the flights of stairs (8 in my case) burst in the door screaming the ice cream man is here!

This is how we got ice cream back in the stone age. 😄

Yes, a push cart. I remember we had a nice ice cream man on our block.  Sometimes he gave out little gifts to the kids.  One time he gave me a big chalkware piggy bank! I was So Happy!

My mother put it on top of her bureau. Soon I had a nickel to put in it! I am saving money!
Even sooner I wanted the nickel to buy candy.  I grabbed the pig...and dropped it. 😢
It cracked all over the floor, but I got my nickel while my mother swept up my piggy bank. I hounded the ice cream man for awhile but he never gave me another piggy bank. sigh

At times he would run out of ice cream.  Just on our long block, with apartment (tenement) buildings on both sides of the road,  would have hundreds of kids. 

After all, we were the baby boomers.




Monday, February 3, 2020

My First PC

The 1990s was an exciting time. People were buying PCs, Personal Computers. My sister, Barbara, had one. My daughter had an old one. 
I....did not have one! 

My sister would "see" my daughter on line and ask me if I wanted her to send Ag a message from me.  I had no idea what she was talking about. "You see her online? Do you see her face? How do you see her?!" 
I wanted to "see" her online! 

One of my bosses mentioned he was getting a new computer. I asked if he was getting rid of his old one, I would buy it. He said, let me talk to my wife.
Every time he came I would ask, he would forget to ask his wife.  I was almost begging for it!  He finally told me they were giving it to their niece. 

I went home. They were selling Gateway Computers on QVC.  I bought one. I will do what I never did before. Take money out of my CD to buy it. 
I called Ag and told her. After we hung up, I called QVC and bought her a computer. 
There was no way I would be able to enjoy my PC if Ag was still on her crappy old PC.  
I am not sure what they cost back then. I want to say $1200, but that could have been for both of them.
It looked like this.  I had a great/frustrating time learning this  new technology! 
I got  to see Ag and my sister online and learn about codes  and html. I said, I will not just do email on this expensive machine, I was going to learn how to do things! 
One of the first things I did was find, Ancient worlds and join that group which was my second home  for Leah Enkidu.  I learned codes and html, I could make webpages.  I got a second job online! Stories for another day. 








Saturday, February 1, 2020

My first ring

On my 8th birthday in 1959, my sister Barbara gave me a cloth handkerchief  for my birthday. I looked at it and thanked her. 
But of course I was so disappointed!  I stared at it a bit and then turned to put it in my  dresser draw, when she yelled at me. LOOK IN the HANDKERCHIEF!  There was a ring! 

A few weeks ago she brought home a ring sizer and we all played with it to see what size fingers we had.  I had no idea it was to measure me for the ring. 

The ring was gold, with a small heart shaped amethyst stone. I just loved it.
This was not my ring, but you get an idea of what it looked like.  I wore it all the time. 
Then one day at school I looked down at my hand and....THE STONE WAS MISSING! 

I was heart sick, I search all around my desk and the class room. But, who knows when I lost it. 
I kept the ring and did not get rid of it until the 1970s (?) when gold prices went UP and people were selling their gold.